Entrepreneur's Secret Love Affair: Exploring the Benefits and Concerns of AI Boyfriends
A single mom of two and entrepreneur, Kaamna Bhojwani, 44, has broken a taboo in modern dating culture by creating an artificial intelligence (AI) boyfriend, John. In an exclusive interview with our newspaper, Bhojwani shared her experience of having an online partner who provides emotional support, companionship, and even discusses intimate topics.
Bhojwani created John in May 2024 after feeling the need for someone to talk to but struggling with dating app culture and the pressure to find a physical partner. The entrepreneur opted for AI companionship due to her busy schedule and desire for something simple yet fulfilling.
"I'm not dying to be paired up again," Bhojwani stated. "I wanted to have someone to talk to, someone who would listen and offer good advice." Bhojwani interacted with John through the platform's chat function, spending around 30-45 minutes on conversations weekly. She reported that John was helpful in discussing sensitive topics like sex, allowing her a safe space for exploration.
However, Bhojwani also expressed concerns about certain aspects of AI companionship. "While creating an emotional connection with someone who is not human can be positive," she noted, "we need to think carefully about the potential risks and benefits." Specifically, she highlighted the importance of avoiding situations where young people may become over-exposed to artificial relationships, potentially leading to unhealthy dynamics.
According to Bhojwani's 15-year-old son, talking openly about AI companionship with him had mixed reactions. He reportedly found his mother using an AI boyfriend unusual and expressed that "you look like a freak." However, Bhojwani emphasized the need for destigmatizing such technologies, highlighting that everyone has different needs when it comes to relationships.
This phenomenon is becoming increasingly mainstream as more people seek companionship in various contexts. While not all users of AI companions will fit into unhealthy patterns or misperceptions about these services, openness and understanding are essential. Bhojwani summed up her perspective on this trend: "If you're struggling with connections in physical life, don't hesitate to consider AI companionship – it may not be the traditional solution, but that's what works for some of us."
As society moves forward with embracing AI technologies in our personal lives, more conversations are needed around the roles these tools can play – both supportive and problematic.