Embracing the Beauty of Decay: Women Find Freedom in Ageing

KOLKATA, 25 January, 2023 - In a conversation that sheds light on the often-fearful topic of ageing, women from various backgrounds and industries have shared their unique perspectives on accepting the natural process of decay.

The experience of ageing has been redefined by these trailblazing women who reject societal beauty standards and instead celebrate the inherent beauty of decline. For them, every wrinkle, grey hair, or faded skin is a testament to a life fully lived.

Actor, director, and theatre veteran Lillette Dubey echoes this sentiment, stating that ageing has brought her not only new perspectives but also a renewed sense of vitality. "I love my age," she says. "It's just another part of the beauty I've accumulated over the years."

Dubey is joined by other women who have transformed their understanding of ageing in positive ways. Artist, model, and influencer Ketaki Pimpalkhare proudly wears her grey hair as a symbol of strength and experience. For Ms. Kundu, the editor of ELLE Decor, India, ageing has become an opportunity to cherish the unique qualities she now possesses.

"I've learned to accept my body's changes," says Ms. Pathak. "I love the frizz in my hair, the laughter lines around my eyes – they're all reminders of a life well-lived."

The women's acceptance of ageing serves as a powerful rebuke to societal beauty standards. As we age, it is easy to surrender to societal pressure and conform to what is deemed beautiful. However, these remarkable individuals are saying that there is more to our story.

Artist Ketaki Pimpalkhare beautifully encapsulates this concept when she says that "ageing is strength and contentment." Her words remind us that evolution is not decline but transformation – a moment of pause to recharge and refocus on what truly matters in life.

The message is clear: acceptance is the cornerstone of happiness as you age. Care for yourself, both physically and mentally, but never run from the reflection in the mirror. In doing so, we invite ourselves to appreciate the wisdom that comes with time – a gift each of us brings uniquely to this beautiful earth.

( Read the full story on ELLE India's new issue, or download your digital copy via Magzter.)